Dear Renn:

Welcome back!

You ended your original post with: “I don’t wish to change him in any way I think it might just be a compatibility thing..”

There is a Values Incompatibility between the two of you: you are in no way motivated by money, so you shared, and he is highly motivated by money.

But there is an issue that goes beyond incompatibility, a red flag, seems to me: “He is very jealous by nature, always asking about my ex, and assuming things about me which are completely out of nowhere“-

– this is a problem, isn’t it, to accept or endure the role of Suspect, in a relationship?

anita