Hi Tommy

I have been really enjoying talking to you as well. You might not be looking to be liked or understood, but you are going to have to put up with me liking you and understanding you.

I don’t think that you are bad at giving advice. You are still in the process of finding a way that works for you.

Honesty and being direct are good qualities that I enjoy in people. You always know where you stand and there are no games. It just takes practice and balance bringing a touch of softness. I know that it all comes from a heart of gold.

You are very open to admitting when you have made a mistake. But are overly hard on yourself when you do.

We have all made mistakes and been triggered it is not just you. We are simply human. It is a process and a journey. We live and we learn and try again next time.

The way to tell if you have seriously hurt  someone is if they leave the forum. The way I see it, you are the one that is hurt right now.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏