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Hi Harry
This might not seem like it, but it is good thing. She has boundaries now which is needed for a person to be healthy. If she was a doormat and had no boundaries you would be in a deeply, deeply unhealthy relationship. Repeating your past unhealthy relationship pattern.
It seems to me that you are a bit of a wishful thinker and not very realistic. You work with the person you cheated on her with. No one would be comfortable being in a long distance relationship in that situation. Expecting her to be okay with that is unrealistic.
It hurts that you made a mistake and that you destroyed the relationship before it truly began. Just accept the lesson that cheating destroys relationships. It is a fair one.
To believe that this would work out well was wishful thinking. Being more realistic in the future will save you a lot of hurt.
But hey, maybe the fun vacation was worth the pain? It is nice to share a special moment with someone even if it doesn’t last.
Wishing you all the best! ❤️🙏