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Hi Franco
It is way too early to know how she feels. You two have barely spoken and you haven’t yet messaged her. She doesn’t even know you yet. She doesn’t even know that you like her. She thinks that you are just a person who used to come into the shop and then stopped coming in for some unknown reason. Do not talk yourself out of something that you have not yet begun.
You wanted to overcome this issue that you have been plagued by. It is limiting your life, preventing you from happiness. You want a partner and a family one day? You will have to talk to women and even be rejected to achieve those goals. It is okay, everyone gets rejected. EVERYONE! Attraction is random and it doesn’t say anything about you.
Remember the reasons why you want to subject yourself to this uncomfortable experience. You won’t get through it if you aren’t focused and committed to your reasons. You deserve a partner. You deserve to be happy. If you have to go through some short term unhappiness to get there it is a reasonable trade.
Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏