Hi Taylor

It wasn’t great that he flaked on you and shut down. It sounds like you’re a bit overly invested in relationships at 2 months of dating. Does it feel that way to you? Or not?

If you’re overly invested you’re going to push away all of the people who don’t get overly invested. And you’re also going to attract people who are a bit unstable.

I would recommend taking a step back and lowering your expectations for people who you haven’t dated for long. These things are a marathon, not a sprint.

Therapy can be a good option for figuring out how to break unhealthy relationships patterns.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏