Hi Anita

I’m glad to hear that you are feeling supported and understand that I wasn’t trying to minimize your feelings. I would love to hear an update about the dental situation if you feel like sharing when you have more news. I hope that your tongue feels better soon!

The situation is essentially. His friend has had difficulties in her marriage for our entire relationship and when we are having difficulties that is when she decides to blow up her marriage. She started cheating on her husband without taking any birth control and was talking to my husband very explicitly about the details of her affair. She was claiming to be afraid of having a baby but refused to take the morning after pill.

We visited her recently after having the baby and she was rude and ignored me and made a comment fantasizing that our son was her’s and my husband’s. My husband thought it was a joke. I didn’t think that it was funny.

I am not surprised that this has happened. I warned my husband about it and he didn’t listen.

I notice the way that she looks at him now. She was sulking while he was talking to her husband and only smiled and brightened up when my husband paid her attention.

She is having a mental breakdown and he is only concerned with supporting her.

Previous exes have said that she had feelings for him and I ignored it for a long time because things were good in our relationship.

Now I feel like she is taking advantage and overstepping and he is letting her.

After all of this happened and he didn’t shut her down talking graphically about her affair because he didn’t think it was a big deal, I asked him to set boundaries with her about that. He didn’t understand why even after explaining and dismissed my feelings but agreed to because I was hurt. I then spoke to her and asked her politely to not talk to my husband about her sex life. She apologised. My husband is angry that I spoke to her.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏