Hi Anita

It is difficult to say about her character because she has been acting out of character recently. For many years she has endured a difficult marriage. She has been considering an affair for a long time, but I think the execution was poor. So it is a mix of impulsive and not impulsive. I don’t think she is thinking clearly and is having some kind of breakdown. That is unpredictable. I think that she also idolizes my husband a bit. He has helped her out a lot over the years. I don’t trust her that much because of the way she has been acting and I don’t know her very well. Obviously her morals and judgment are in question at the moment.

I do think that you are right about the drama though. It seemed to me that she wanted to gossip more than was afraid of a pregnancy. She was also shocked by her own behaviour.

Yes, I think he was unmoved by the details. But I still find it disrespectful.

You are spot on. It hurts that he doesn’t understand, even when I explain my feelings to him. It makes me feel dismissed and invalidated. Thank you for your kindness and empathy! I hope that things change too.

Some additional context is that my husband is neurodivergent too. I think that this effects both of our communication. I don’t remember if I mentioned it before.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏