My friend, I had to learn the hard way, hopeless romantic is exactly that, hopeless. You however are not going to feel his pain, only yours. He may feel this is the greatest relationship ever with a few bumps in the road while you struggle, suffer and fake your happiness.
You will find, as most do, that ending a bad relationship is hard for a brief moment in time and upon reflection, prayer and meditation, it is liberating and freeing. Do you really want to drag an anchor?
On this site, you wont be lonely, we are here for you.
And YOU are always with YOU and you are amazing and worth true happiness.
His feelings are his feelings, he will deal with them on his own. Growth for him will come of this also in one way or another. This is not your problem, only your prayers for him are necessary. If you are unhappy and free yourself, you have given both people involved a great service, most important to yourself.
Be well
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 