Hey Albana,
I’m glad that you feel a little bit better now. You’re right, if you really decide to move on, just cut every possible way that can make u reach him or vice versa. I know it’s really, really hard. Because you loved him, and you two shared so much memories, many minor things in your life will even make you remind him. Today when I went to brew a coffee, i would remember how she brew coffee for me in the past. It’s tough. But believe me, we both will get over it.
I’m facing the same question as yours since my ex ‘s bday is coming in 2 weeks. As yesterday she texted me that do not bother her anymore with a very cold tone, i decide i will not contact her in any ways. Whether or not wish him is up to you, but I feel you shouldn’t. After all, it won’t change anything. The earlier you move on, the sooner you get better.