Hi Moly – were you friends before you dated? if so, perhaps you can get back to that point. if not, it is a new type of relationship that can only work if you both go into it with openness and honesty. if he is IN love with you still, this could be hard for him to hold that back. if he “just” loves you still, you could develop a fine friendship – it would be tricky but i guess you might want to ask, if it goes wrong – if his love for you makes it too hard, how difficult would it be (on both of you) to end it again. good luck.