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Hi Rose Lynn
I am glad that you are able to ask for help. I will provide my perspective here and it may not resonate with you today. In a few months or years, it will definitely make sense so pls bear with me. Do not take it personally as I do not mean any harm 🙂
Grass is NOT greener on the other side. You can try swapping your life with someone else’s and I can assure you that you will convert that grass into a sad one too. The problem is not outside or in other people. You need to look within to find some serious answers as to why you are feeling the way you are for some time.
You appear to be a judgmental and critical personality from your posts (I have read your other posts as well). There is nothing wrong with being that way but you wont be able to find the key of your happiness with that personality trait. What we often despise in other people is actually what is inside us that we do not like. Unfortunately, no one tells us this or teaches us this at Uni. Only with time and experiences do we get to appreciate this lesson.
You have given yourself a lot of self-limiting labels and you also appear to have some negative beliefs too. They are the ones, which are keeping you stuck in the rut. It is not anyone else from outside.
Until you are ready to accept that it is an inner journey that you need to undertake rather than an outer journey, no one will be able to assist you to create more bliss and contentment in your life.
Think about it.
Blessings,
Jasmine