Hi Joshua,

Thank you for sharing and must I say it really helps to know that guys can feel jealous, too. I do feel insecure from time to time about my relationship. Sometimes I worry we’re too weak and emotional because we’re two girls. I sometimes fantasize being in a heterosexual relationship just so I can be weak and emotional and have a man to lean on to but this only happens in my darkest hours. Most time, I’m happy that I am independent but when I’m feeling particularly beaten, I can’t help but thinking of this other life that could have been.

You mentioned about limiting beliefs about myself and this is totally a new thing to me. Do you care to elaborate? How does one deal with those beliefs?

Thanks!