Hi, S.R. I don’t know if your dinner was for the same day (yesterday) or if it hasn’t happened yet, but I would strongly suggest you do not follow through with it. Based on what you’ve told us, I don’t think it will go over well. He responded poorly to you telling him you don’t trust him – telling him you “forgive” him for something he doesn’t even find any personal responsibility for will likely lead to similar results. You’re not expecting any understanding from him, so why bother with the dinner meeting at all? You can still forgive him within your heart without verbalizing it to him. Forgiveness means letting go. Just my two cents.