UPDATE

Hey guys just an update on the situation. I’ve come to a new dilemma (Which i knew i was going to)

Long story short she ended up telling the workmate (guy was seeing/he thought they were together) that it wasn’t going to work out with them and that it cant go any further. (Now i understand she did it, but I thought her telling him the truth that her and I are back together wouldve been better as I feel he’s going to be persistant now with txting her outside of work). I told her that its basically me (Our relationship/future together) or it’s him and his friendship, i could never trust them two being friends after what has happened and while we’re together. She knows this but said it’s still sad she is losing a friend in this. Which i do understand but it’s not nice hearing that my from point of view that she’s sad, but shes gaining a relationship with me that she loves and a possible future together.

Her actions towards me are fine, she’s showing me love, shes saying all the right things, but it’s still not enough right now to get me over this trust hump.

So my dilemma is trust. I knew it was going to be all a long but I’m just wanting to know is there any tips or anything suggestions of trusting her. She knows she has to build my trust back up. She’s told me she’s not going to be in contact with him outside of work. In which he’s already began to txt her so i’m just taking her word on it at the moment, but I don’t want to keep pestering her about it as it’ll become toxic between us.

Thanks

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