Jacqueline, forgive me for being judgmental, but is this the same guy from your other post? He was a former flame from high school with whom you were getting together for the first time in years this past weekend. How is it, that only a week later you are “exclusively dating” and you’re already trying to change him? Is it possible that this just isn’t a good match? If you’re basing your entire perception of him on one weekend, which was essentially one long first date, don’t you think you’re jumping to conclusions a bit? I would suggest you let the relationship organically develop and see how you like it. Enjoy the ride. You are in the early stages of dating, just getting to know each other and your behaviors.