Wipe the fear of being perceived a fool for all of us are really fools in progress 😛

Ok let me elaborate a bit 🙂

Your perception decides a huge part of your emotional experience but it is actually not the entire reality.

How you feel about yourself is the state of the mouth. The external environment (other’s thoughts, actions, activities we do etc) are the food. How you perceive the food is decided by your understanding of the taste of the food. If your mouth is already bitter, food which is actually sweet would be perceived as bitter. There are many who dont believe any good that is said about them and feel even worse when someone says something bad.

Now the question is whether the external environment/food is really that unpleasant..Or perhaps you’re terribly conscious, judgmental about yourself and invariably extend that feeling to others, is something you have to introspect about.

Women are definitely a subset of the human species and like every person out there, they have certain needs – respect, politeness and they enjoy praise too. In a work place setting, one needs to be professional and mostly stay on a positive footing with co-workers. But arent co-workers technically just people?

Really, despite all our misgivings, we’re all the same – we just want to do well and be happy. Maybe the way we do things differ but fundamentally, there is this human quality in all of us.

Be kind to yourself – you’re a good person with wonderful qualities and so are they. Try to recognize what you have in common rather than focusing on your differences.