Thank you for replying Jess 🙂

I worked with this actual person before.

There were constant meditations almost every week with her. An office fist fight almost broke out, problematic gossip, disrespecting co-workers…you name it. I have talked to her before about the way she treats others (other co-workers have also done the same, but she does not see the issue.

I previously thought that maybe she is not the or a problem and that she just needed someone to talk to.

However, I found that the advice I was giving was not being heard and that the constant inquisition for he said / she said…was more of a concern to her than being positive and trying to make a change.

I do not think she is all or completely a bad person. I believe that good, or the potential for good resides in all people. But, I do think that she does not care enough to consider the way she treats other as something that she needs to work on.

In the end, I think carrying on and “thank you for your input” may be the best response.