I think the trick is to be open to the possibility of all things, *while also accepting things the way they are*. Is it *possible* for you to get back together? Yes. (The stats are against you.) But I do believe in the possibility of all things (AND have seen stranger things happen!!). There is such a thing as Grace, Magic and Miracles in this world. But I’ll tell you what, if she’s Closed and you’re acting like “That Guy”, every proclamation *will* actively repel her.

“Yes, I’m single now. Would I be open to a renewed relationship with her? Sure, maybe someday. Who knows?.” is the mental attitude you should have. Yes, it might be nice, but you’re not actively grasping for it.

Channel that energy into meditation and ~ this just came to me ~ running! An app like From Couch to 5K will give you something to do, a goal, and a focus. After finishing a real 5K (or something else if you’ve done one) will give you that Completion fix.

Forward! Onward! “There is no try!”

• This reply was modified 10 years, 6 months ago by Inky.
• This reply was modified 10 years, 6 months ago by Inky.