I just want to tell you: do not define yourself by your perceived failings: What matters and who you are is defined by how you come out on the other side. Hold your head up and be true to yourself and if you do not know how to do that then find out who you are. That is what I am doing. I dedicated my life to my children and they ripped out my heart but it forced me to find out WHO I WAS not just a MOM and a TEACHER; those are labels but they are not WHO I AM. Redefine yourself and perservere! What is the other option? Forgive yourself for everything! you are human……and it really hurts to be human!

jbond