Tiny Zebra, it’s so common to freak out in our 30s about Time, Bio Clocks, Family, Children, Partners. It’s in our DNA.

At this point, be ruthless, in a light hearted way. Go on dating sites (Christian Mingle? JDate?) where you are more likely to meet someone of the same mindset. Do circular dating or speed dating. The more men you meet, the more you can practice instant discernment and won’t get too caught up into one if it goes wrong.

I hear you about The Future. I’ve said that line myself, “If I just knew WHAT would happen concerning (family dynasty/$$) I’d be OK”.

In the meantime, view dating as a fun hobby ~ but be business like when it comes to marriage/children. Don’t mess around. See the paradox?? You have all the power, actually.