Jasmine: I guess I havnt been 100 % myself – because who is when you are JUST getting to know each other – I have some things I keep to myself to protect myself but I think you are right – maybe I should just be myself and show my vulnerable side so they can get a more clear vision on why I am behaving the way I am. And if they leave because of the fact that I am myself – I guess they are not the right person for me!

The ruminant: I don’t really have male friends – only my friends’ boyfriends. This issue is only in my romantic relationships. I have good friends whom I have known for a long time – I don’t change friends at all.. My real/close friends are some I have had in my life for a long time. I think you are right – friendship first then maybe it could involve into something. The reason why I bring up the daddy issue part is because i ONLY date men who are older than me. Like 30, because I love the fact that they are mature and protective and I guess its because I really have the need of being taken care of and being someones.

I guess what I need to work on is not caring what others think and do/say exactly what I feel like to a man so he knows i DO CARE!