Hi Lorraine,
This can be a seemingly impossible process I know. The only way it worked for me was to remove all contact and reminders until ‘the fever broke.’ I also focused on the reasons why the person was not a fit for me. Having said that, I’m still in one now. I see her all the time but dont want to leave the situation. For me I think I will soon remove myself anyway.
You got some awesome and funny advice to work with. Take care of yourself.
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