Dear Clint

Just follow one saying ” if you really love something.. Just let it go.. if it comes back to you, it is yours!! Else it never belonged to you!!!”. You can understand i think!!. Possessiveness is part of any true relationship. You need to feel possessive and protect the other person. But there is a fine line to that. If it exceeds, then you make it obsessive. However, jealousy is just underestimating yourself. All you need is to use your analytical mind. Everyone has their nature. She may be that extra jovial type. How she is with you must just matter to you, then Trust! If you are clingy you can never get a true relationship.

Remember to follow a detachment in attachment. Believe me you will feel so nice from inside. Jealousy makes you feel more sick. He or she will do what they have to do. So you determine how you react. I don’t know your age. But I am 42 and have enough experience in life. I learnt hard way in my life – to respond and not to react!! Good wishes to you!!!

Best Regards
banu