I agree that perhaps you were simply closer to your grandfather. Then again, it is still early. Let things flow, and be the observer, and don’t wonder too much. I have experienced something similar recently, and for me it’s because I wasn’t close to one, but the other one lived with us everyday for over 11 years. That’s just how it is.
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 