Emmanuelle, I suggest you check out the many other forums on Tiny Buddha as they are likely geared towards what you are seeking. There is a specific forum for Spirituality and there are others for Fun, Work, and so on. This particular forum is Relationships, therefore people come here to discuss their relationships with other people. I think it’s only natural that people come to post about their relationships when they are challenged, on the decline, or they are struggling to heal from a relationship that ended. I suppose you may find the rare soul who comes to a relationship forum simply to wax poetic about how wonderful their partner and relationship is, but it’s more likely that people come when they need support in dealing with relationship challenges. Go explore 🙂