Hi There!
Be careful diagnosing yourself! You could very well has low level Asperger’s (based solely on the way you write like my nephew, who does have it), but in the end, any condition you may have is just a label.
You are more head based. Most people don’t think that much and are more emotion based. So I don’t know exactly how the last breakup went down, what they said, what you said. People don’t bond with you because you are logical. People bond with you because of how you make them feel.
There was something written about how a guy told his girlfriend, “I love you almost as much as I love the whole world!” and to him that was a declaration of deepest love.
She, however, was insulted! What she FELT was, “Great, he would put everyone else ahead of me!” when she should have HEARD “You are such a great soul, you are adored almost as much as 6 billion people put together.”
For you next relationships or friendships, maybe go to Mensa meetings, or some other place where there are other head based people who would “get” you! Meaning, who get logic!
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 