@flyby thankyou for sharing that with me you have no idea how helpful it’s been and it’s made me feel a lot stronger in myself already. I’m sorry to hear you’ve had a similar experience but I’m glad you are past the worst of it and are getting stronger. If you’d have met me 5 years ago I wouldn’t have batted and eyelid at my ex and moved on ASAP, just crazy how quickly you can get sucked into these things! I’m slowly coming to terms and learning that it’s okay to be by myself. I’m writing a lot in my journal at the moment which helps get me through the day 🙂 What were some of the things that got you through your experience if you don’t mind me asking?