Hi @The Ruminant

Thank you for your response – I never see it from this angle.

You’re right, when I was young I never cared whether the other girl liked strawberry bubble gum or collecting barbie like me. We just hit it off. Why cant be as easy as that now?!

It’s true that all I want is to have someone else to share laugh, sorrow and silliness together. Someone/people that respect and accept me as I am. Most people I met now, all they want is to get drunk and go to the club! I have passed that phase in my life and I really want is just to chat over a cup of coffee or wine and just different kind of fun, I think. Like you, I call my self a nerd too! I’m a deep thinker and I would love to meet someone what I can have a good conversation about life and how can we make it better!! My poor bf, he’s very supportive however, I need to have my own circle of friends.

I’m thinking of joining groups too. Not sewing – as I am totally useless at it!! But definitely dancing and wine testing. The only fear I have is to show up in these groups on my own. You know, Billy no mates… but hey, I shouldn’t let the fear get in the way of what I want!?

Thank you @The Ruminant, it’s very insightful! I really appreciate it.

Much Love! xo