Hi Tracy – Im so sorry to hear what your going through. I can very much relate. You have wonderful advice here and support on TB though, have comfort in know that. Regarding your partner, has be always been insensitive to your needs? Was he different when you two started dating? Its only been 3 months which is odd to me because this is somewhat new and he is already acting like this? If you dont mind me asking, do you foresee a future with this man? You mentioned ivf, is this thoughts for the future or with your current man? I’m asking all these questions becuase, if you dont foresee a future with him, then what is the purpose being around someone that brings your energy down further? Matt made gave some excellent advice (thanks so much btw). I know its harder said than done, but truth is – we have to find it within our selves. Like you, I struggle everyday and try to learn more about myself everyday. Mediation has helped me a great deal. Do you meditate?