Dear Ones,
Spinbunny – I would have an honest discussion with your trainer. All this second guessing drives me nuts. What are the signals you are receiving and giving? No respect to this guy’s woman but I believe in taking love by the horns via communication. Find out where his heart and mind are. If he is devoted to his woman, move on out of respect for her, him and yourself. BUT maybe they are struggling and not meant to be to gether. How would you ever know if you don’t ask. A simple yes or no will do and will tell you volumes, provided the guy is not a player, in which case you AND his gf are better off without him.

Ask.

Good luck.