Hi Susan,

I feel really sorry for what you had to go through. Also, angry and upset, for I don’t know why sometimes some people are not satisified with one person in relationship… Sigh!

I have been in a relationship with a lesbian for 2 years; although I discovered that she has been a flirt in her life,but she always made me feel I was special. I was going through a low phase in my life and I liked the comfort, love and care she extended to me. I later discovered she was dating another colleague during weekends. Thought it would work but I didn’t have the answers I was looking for. To cut the long story short, sometimes we miss to take the clues God sends our way. You’re looking for a formal communication from her on your relation, but you might as well have to gather the clues here and figure out the answer for yourself. She must have already moved on in her life. Why would you want to be stuck in past? You’re a wonderful person and you deserve love, care and compassion! Sending lots of love and compassion your way. Be gentle and kind on yourself. Focus only on yourself at this moment. Keep posting your thoughts here whenever you feel low…

Blessings to you dear Susan…