Good Morning!

I think what happened is he broke up with you in the gentlest way possible ~ while also leaving you as a future option!

I also think you were in your lives for A Reason AND A Season! And you simply outgrew each other in that you are both now so Awesome neither one can fully contain the other’s Awesomeness.

Love also ebbs and flows so there is a slight chance that five or ten years later you will meet again and see each other with new eyes.

However, right now the Love is that of being supportive Friends. An occasional text. Social media buddies. Running into each other at the same parties.

I would honestly keep it that way. His true feelings for you will come out, I suspect, once you take him at his word and move on ~ and he knows you’re with another guy one day. Don’t be surprised if he gets jealous ~ but don’t be disappointed if he doesn’t seem to care, either!

• This reply was modified 10 years, 4 months ago by Inky.