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Eileen
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Yes, I am. I had a very good relationship with my first love–I thought I was going to marry him. Then I moved away and we had to part ways. It was SO painful at first. I would stay up at night just crying and crying about how unfair it all seemed and how I would never find someone that I would love as much as him.

But then things started looking up. I made new friends and I realized that there isn’t just ONE person in the world that you are compatible with. In fact, there are many, many people who are perfect for you, so don’t limit yourself to just one. In your case, he was probably never good for you in the first place. I know it hurts, but trust me, there are so many people out there. I am really happy now, despite not being with my first love. You will be too. Just wait and see!

Thoughts and prayers,
Eileen