Hi, i do have the same issue as you right now. i met this girl in my new working place. i am suppose to take over her duties roles as she was leaving the company. she has 1 month to pass down everything to me before she fly off back to her country. during that month, a lot happen. we talk about things, more than work related. issues like her current relationship. yes, we both have a partner during that time. Mine is going smoothly, but hers is not so well. her relationship has been bad since her ex-bf broke up with her few years back. she can’t find the right guy who can understand her. her current bf was in oversea for study at that time, their relationship hasn’t been doing well even before she know me. For me, i have a relationship that she love me more than i love her. she can’t give me the love i want, but i know she is a really good gf who is so hard to find anymore.

we both, during that time, know how much we love each other. however, we are not fated to be together. this is what happen.

i am only willing to give up my 5 years relationship for her. but the decision come too late. i only made up my mind when she flew away. when she finally met up with her current bf, everything change. she decided to give her bf another chance to work things out. and she doesn’t want me to give up 5 years relationship for her, because it remind her of her 6 years bf who broke up with her.

since then, i have been doing alot of stupid things to win her win her back. in short, it turn out really bad now. her image of me currently is like her ex who broke up with her 6 years ago. i don’t think she have any love for me anymore.

however, i still love her. i know it is wrong to love 2 person at one time. i know my current relationship will go smoothly and have a good future together. now all i wish is just be like old time in that one month i can’t share things with each other.

so.. mash, you can be very sure of your feeling at the moment. but one day, he might change or fall in love with another girl. so we must learn to accept each other. although your current bf doesn’t give you the love as much as the other, he still have other part of him you love. even if you choose another guy, one day you will still will find another person who can be better than him.