Thanks Matt.

Hi Purpose @purpose Welcome back 🙂

I am not going to be as gentle as Matt with my perspective on this issue. I saw this coming after we had a brief chat few weeks ago on a similar lined issue.

You may feel that you are very clear with your boundaries in your mind, which is great but I don’t really get a substantial reason to believe this from your posts to date.

What is with wanting to be a saviour ? Do you want to be a GOD ? Do you want to be a super hero, Purpose the Great ? Where does this need come from ?

Do you just care about people or do you actually start living a life for them ? There is a big difference between the two. When we set boundaries, we need to be very clear in our mind as to what those boundaries are and also inculcate similar boundaries for others.

As you have a conflict in your mind about your own boundaries, it is not hard to see why this person has back fired on you despite your best intentions.

My sincere advice for you follows this principle: Live and let others live without too much interference in other people’s lives. Be a friend but do not try to become a saviour. When a person is drowning and we jump into the ocean to save them without actually knowing how to swim, you know what happens. This situation is not much different to what has happened.

I hope you will take some positives out of this for yourself and move forward with clear boundaries and your head held high up. Remember, “I am Purpose with a purpose in life. I am a friend and I will there for friends when they need me and how they need me. I will not jump into the ocean until I have learnt to swim and I will not try to change others because they are miserable. It is not my job to change others. My job is to be at peace with myself so that the peace can flow onto others”.

Please do consider taking up the bargain offered by Matt 🙂

Now give us a BIG SMILE and get on with what Purpose needs to do !!!!! Don’t waste your precious energies.

Blessings,

Jasmine