Hello Ruminant 🙂
To make myself more clear I was wondering what her motive is or exactly why she changed SO much ever since I got married I really don’t want to think that it was the jealousy that changed her, and I have asked her before whats wrong and she just acts cold about it , she really just CHANGED for some reason. When it comes to helping with the wedding , no I really don’t feel the need for her to help at all but the thing is , is that people that I have known for a very short time have offered to help and have cared about me and my happiness while she asks nothing about me , my wedding, my happiness , my honeymoon , nothing that a normal friend would ask when her “best friend” got married. To be honest I think deep down I don’t really want her friendship anymore because I have changed SO much since high school and it seems like if there is no high school , there is nothing for us to do together or to even talk about we dont have much of a relationship outside of highs school which I guess is some sort of sign . Also when I stand up for myself she seems to get really angry and defensive she used to like the NO confidence me more than this new me who is being true to herself ! To be honest sitting here and writing about it shows me more that I don’t think we are meant to really be friends anymore ..hmm