Thanks so much both of you. My poor boyfriend said that he’s pretty much accepted that I need to go be because I can’t decide what I want and I never will if I don’t get out there and try new things. That it’ll fester until it tears us apart. At least this way we would have the chance of working it out because I won’t have regrets and can understand better what I want. You’re right that I can choose to be anything I want to be

I’m just going to have to a think. There’s no right or good decision here.

Thanks again to both of you for your advice and taking the time to talk to me. 🙂 x