Hi Will,
When I brought up the grand public gesture, I felt it was a provocative way to qualify feelings, i.e., “Oh I cannot see myself doing that for her.” Helping to move to that on / off decision. Having been there, stuck, it helps to nudge or be nudged. So…..more agreement? 🙂
Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine. 