Hi I understand how you feel. Listen very very carefully. It’s very important. I know what she did only for her father. she gave up because of her father..She didn’t have courage. If she want to be with you, she should have courage to get over this. It doesn’t mean Courage se time lgta hai.. Have you heard about gay marriage in India? Gay couple got married this year.. They said it’s really hard to convince their parents and it took them 3 years.. See They didn’t give up.. But your girl gave up..It’s not really good that her dad told her to do that.. It’s like her stories is written in her father’s hands..Dad is making her life.. It’s really wrong… You are very loyal to her..You never give up..Never ever let her go.. I think there is always a way.. Some people always believe that there is no option that there is no way..But that is not truth..It’s very easy to give up when they think that. Truth is ANYTHING is Possible. I think you take time off thinking about her.. I mean take time with yourself.. You must read every powerful quote in tinybuddha.com. You must read daily..So that you will gain more powerful inside and know everything about world, love, family, yourself, etc….That’s very important and first step to do that.. Secondly you will figure out.. Stop thinking.. Live in moment. Get rid off past..Past can’t compare with future.. I want to say quote —

1. “Your time is limited. Don’t waste it living in someone else’s life.. Don’t be trapped by dogma. Don’t let the noise of others opinion drown you out inner voice.. ” — Steve Jobs
2. If you love her, let her go.. If she come back she is yours…
3. Someone asked God, “what is the funniest things you see in the world?” God Replied, “when Human make future plans”
Third one is superb..Its feel like nobody know about future… Good things happen to those who believe in oneself.. If you believe in yourself..good thing will happen..Just have faith..leave that to God… You must enjoy yourself…

Be happy for no reason like a child..If you are happy for a reason…you are in trouble.. because reason can be taken from you.. So Be happy!
This time dekhna kya hoga.. don’t pretend that you don’t care about her at al..be real.. and this time you willn’t see her everyday.. I am sure it will work.. and she will think of you again..It will take time..I know she started this.. You should stop now like idiot..(if you do that seeing her everyday..she won’t mind it everyday about you…may be she will feel you love her and always see her…..). have faith..that all matters.. everything will be fine.. Think positively.. many people failed relationship because they lose faith and trust.. Time heals everything.. Go out with your friends..hangout anything you want..Be smile & happy because it will confuse her 😀 ) Be happy… Happiness will take you where happiness is…
Keep reading positive quote everyday..You will understand.. You will feel more powerful inside..and Be selfless..You are alive..You have one life..so why complicate life? 😀 so don’t worry…
Good luck!!

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