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pheadrus
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Yes, totally this is possible. And boy have some folks on this forum got the wrong end of the stick. Life is NOT about finding and being with your soulmate happily ever after. Life is about learning, growing, experiencing and loving. A true soulmate, is a soul who’s root is the same as yours. You have the same soul source, and you have lived life time after life time in co-operation towards that goal of mutual growth. Being totally wrapped up in each other for an eternity of romantic “happily ever afters” does not contribute to that goal. Experiences that test your courage, your morals, your understanding of yourself and your understanding of love and respect do. Yes, you will always love a soulmate, the same way you love yourself because they are, quite literally, a part of you. You may well have chosen in this incarnation to explore and experience love and marriage with other people, and it is very likely that your current husband is part of your extended soul family, but choosing to exchange vows does not change their position on your soul tree, nor does it tie you to someones soul forever as their one and only. Relationships in this life are just that. Soul relationship pre-exist this life and will continue long after it. Recognizing, acknowledging and respecting soulmate love does not mean you need to up and leave the man you married, or that you should. Nor does it mean you are “disloyal” to your husband. Each of these people is in your life for the same reason, to help you grow into the best, brightest soul you can be. I can see from your replies to others that you don’t need me to tell you this. You have a strong sense of this already. Your head and your heart are in the right place, and you aren’t crazy. Trust your intuition. It’s bang on.