I feel the reality of the American Dream has long since changed on all levels from our economic crisis down to the family breaking down.

I don’t know if you have looked around your life now and how it has changed since you were 18 – but I have and always amazed at how sheltered and lack of life experiences I had – and managed to stay alive.

I am old and have been looking for work since the eco collapse, the demise of my business and my marriage in 2008. My family hates me and I was just informed that the first REAL job (interview) I have had since 08 is now moved to PT basis. It is 3 hours from me by car and I was terrified but HAD to interview and start over…it was advertised as a FT position. The super called me the day before I was set to leave to interview to inform me of this. So now – nothing but more apps.

I live w my elderly parents in the basement and it is not where I thought I would be in life. My mom is an alcoholic and my dad is always enabling her.

All I know is that money is a necessary evil and life goes on with or without bills.

Like you, I have lost those excited hopes…sad about our country…and debt.

I have learned to live minute to minute appreciating what I can for as long as I can. Living – in the moment.

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