Yes, of course you’re not ready yet; you’ve totally been through it! I’m guessing that girlfriends who look really good while tearing you apart inside are pretty hard to get over. You’re right, probably no one wants to date someone with baggage who’s not quite over his ex, but I have a feeling if they banned such folks from dating sites, the sites would go under. You could just go on dates for practice…nothing to lose. I bet you’ll start feeling more confident if you do. Staying home just tells your subconscious it’s too scary.

Many people believe that perhaps 90% of our actions are directed by our subconscious. We think our conscious minds are in charge, joke’s on us.

And finally…is the glass half full or half empty? whatever you focus on, good or bad, is what you’ll get more of.