Hi Steve,

Your thoughts are very much valid…I share the same attribute..’I wear my heart on my sleeve’…Although I’m a woman, I prefer to say what’s in my heart rather than beat around the bush and play with mind (I’m bad at it :-))

2 days ago I told one of my friends that I like him more than a friend, although partly I knew that he won’t be able to proceed and even if he has something for me, it won’t come out. And I don’t wanna burn myself this time by investing in a relation which doesn’t have a future. I prefer the other person be open and candid too. Anyways, it was just to share.

When it comes to dating, the needs might differ, yeah? Some might be wanting just attention and sometimes women need someone to compliment them. If that’s all they were looking for, it won’t proceed further and believe me it’s better to not think much about why she didn’t reply you back (i am going through the same these days with the guy I like, so I can understand :-), it happens)….

Keep a tab on your self-esteem and don’t let it go down in any case. You’re a wonderful human being and deserve a loving person. Whenever any thoughts come and eat your head…remind yourself to ‘Move on’…

And as for the lady you met, if she is interested, she will message you back, have patience until then. Some people have a slow pace and we need to understand that. After all, it has to be mutual, yeah?

Lots of positivity to you Trevor… Stay blessed!