Were you cheated on before? Has he ever given you reason to doubt him? Is your intuition picking up on something? Remember that our thoughts become things, so be careful you don’t “manifest” someone else into the picture! That is what you are doing, as the phantom girlfriend has already caused problems! To you she is a phantom. To him she is invisible.

There’s been talk on the boards for A 30 Day Challenge. Why don’t you try it for this situation? Don’t talk about Trust, The Relationship, Phantom Girlfriends, etc. for 30 Days. It will be hard. Bite your tongue a lot! Sit on your hands! Hide the phone!

But see how the energy of the relationship is after a month. I bet it will be better.