I was in a relationship that began on a dating site. We had both agreed to have a monogamous exclusive relationship after a while. At one point I had a strange feeling that she had secrets and sure enough I found that she was on the dating site again. When I confronted the issue, there were lots of denials and excuses. We decided to stay together and set up more clear guidelines for acceptable behavior. Long story short, I found that she had “integrity issues” far worse than still looking while committed. She knowingly gave me an STD that I will have the rest of my life (she’s a surgeon of all things). The relationship came to an end shortly after. I’m telling you this because I made the error of not listing to that little voice inside me that said “this is not right”. I’m now in a committed relationship with a wonderful, trust able woman and I don’t hear that little voice anymore. We have challenges, but I never doubt her integrity. Listen to your heart. It tells you many things.