Hi there,

I jus signed up to answer ur question. I am 26 IT engineer , with M.tech completed , from Maharashtra settled in UAE and married…. Btw I was not surprised by the kind of question you have and hence it proves ur not a weirdo…. There are many like u , Infact all the sensible young crowd in INDIA face the same story…. Or if not they will have the same question…. Spoken or unspoken… They will always struggle…

Now coming to ur question… I believe LIFE is what you choose to make it… No one controls it owns it and governs it but U… So for ur statements like how do I change the people around me, or their narrow minded ness if at all is bothering u … U R AT FAULT NOT they… Coz U CHOOSE to MAKE it a concern for ur life,

M sorry but it’s childish to complain that wherever u go people are not open minded, people all this ages have been different?..Caste, politics, typical habit to put others down and all this exist and will exist… It’s your choice what kind of lyf u want to create for urself…

Now a reality check for u :::

I was born in a small village… Took my education in a small city … Was attracted to live a life king size, with no negativity , like sick people saying and discussing what I shud do and what not to do… People with middle class mentality, people with no ambitions to grow and let others grow, people who never grow and learn about small joys, like having a freedom to do what u feel, they will stuck with u forever and decide everything how what and when to do , what to feel… IN short PEOPLE decide WHAT u shud DO in UR OWN LIFE……… WHAT u said was this system….

Now I live freely coz I chose to give them a ROYAL ignore … This system this people don’t matter to me at all.. I accept that I don’t live in India but I guess this has helped me… I have got a better life.. Better things to do.. Moreover no one tells me what to do.. As I took the decision and control of my life…
And so I got people around me who are also progressive, open minded… Life is not just khanna kamana and sona… It’s beautiful.. Now I do what I want .. V go on camping, trekking, vacations, have conversations, party and get together.. And while doing all this I still do what I wanted to persue..

So my dear friends… Don’t think too much,, make a plan… Be independent May be job will make u independent.. Get to a new place.. A new country if possible or other state.. Make new friends… Have ur own life first… N pls think twice … NO one OWNS U.. Not even parents and family,,, trust ur intuitions and plan a better life…

At this point independence is what u need..

Btw m a girl married to a boy of other religion.. And I thank GOD that I let no one decide anything for me… Coz it’s been the best so far and it will always be.. As I don’t care about the world and last things people who restricted me from doing and thinking the way I wanted praise me … Dats d best part…

So dude u need to get a life..first ..good luck