Yah very true Inky, he did had a trust issue and told me himself that he didn’t trust no one, and when he broke up with me because our daily schedule was going to change, i work during the day a regular hours work schedule Monday thru Friday and he work a evening schedule from 2pm to 10 pm and his days off were Wednesday and Thursday and we used to chill after he was done with his shift. his son and my son are about the same age. his son is a couple months older then my son and they were going to be starting to go to school k grade and he the type of person he would rather take care of his son rather someone (even if he was in a relationship with someone) he wouldn’t leave him with no one but his family members, so he changed to evening to graveyard to take and pick him up from school, and at the time he was dealing with ex wife and going to court for their son and keep fight over pointless things (i think) and was already making plans to go back to school the next term , so he told me that we weren’t going to have time for each other anymore and knowing how he think he didn’t think he could trust me….so he broke up with me, and i told him that i really care for him and i really wanted to make this work but he told me that we should take a break and see if this is really what we wanted and a few month later i asked him where do we stand and he told me that he wanted to be friends and he wasn’t ready for a girlfriend and gave him his space and been trying to let go what we had and Hoping that maybe one day we can get back together hoping that their is still a chance…..