Thanks Katie and jeena,

I did send her that message and it was a “thanks” and “sorry I’ve been really busy, no time to chat”. I didn’t get into anything too much with her but I let her know that message wasn’t about trying to chat. I might text her in while and see how she responds. If she tells me that she doesn’t have time for a relationship, I’ll just call her on it, because she is on the same dating site as me.

I think she is trying not to hurt my feelings and get me to finally give up on her. I’d rather a person just dump you than do that. It always leaves you feeling unsure of what it means.

Jeena, I think guys get a bad rap when it comes to relationships. Both sexes are very good at playing games with a person’s emotions. My ex-wife who I was with for 19 years lied to my face everyday, for at a year, and didn’t think anything of it.

I’m starting to think I am hooked on the type of woman that this woman is. She has so many great qualities about her that draws me to her. She makes me think that I should have met someone like her a long time ago. One quality that I could do without is aloofness.
I’m trying to break out of this funk. I think it will take a little time though