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1) Atleast a big majority of women(And Men) fake themselves . They Try to show That They are nice , modest , They fake interest in You when sometimes they may not be that attracted , or they may appear all nice and fluffy till your marriage starts and after a few Years , Everythig goes down the drain And You ask ” What went wrong ? ” Well . Everything went wrong . Maybe she wasnt the person You thought she was from the beginning itself . Maybe that’s why the girl You say You like left . You say you had a nice relationship …. And everything went right …. so then why did she Leave ? Well ask yourself . Maybe she is not that uprighteous . Maybe she wanted the bad boy type Or she wasnt really ven attracted to You … she just hid it . Why do you think she falls into the perfect “princess” image ? Ok . Lets suppose she was not perfect (Well no one is ) but Your relationship was perfect . Why didnt she call You atleast once When You sort of lost contact ? ? She could have atleast maintained friendship with You , couldnt she ?
Ok . Not all girls are like this . But some are .
2.) The second question You have to ask is not “Why do we always want what we cant have ” BUT ” Why cant we have what we always want ?” Well , that’s life . If Everyone Gets what They want , Hey then Eveyone would have been happy … right ?
So Thats why dont try to find the perfect person . Accept little imperfections .
No one is perfect in the worlds eyes , but even though You cant find a person who is fully perfect in your eyes , you will get someone who is atleast some percent perfect .