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Don’t try Hard to be perfect for someone else sake . Try to be perfect for Yourself . BUT Do You Feel You will be satisfied with What you are Even if You achieve all your goals ?. No . Why ? Because Your needs are not basic . Its not as if you are starving or not having shelter or People to provide You money and support . Only When you don’t have these basic necessities and then work hard to get them And then actually get them , Will you ever be perfectly satisfied with Yourself .
Other than that , if You graduate , You might be happy for a little time . Then You Will start thinking “Ohh , If I Could study more again” or “ohh , If i had a less strenuous Job”. The acquirement of these things might not give you satisfaction but only The acquirement of basic necessities can .